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Mediation- Integrated Individuals

Author´s name: Dr.P.Basak

Profile: Ford Foundation Fellow, MIT, USA. PhD IIT Kanpur  View More



What type of persons are wanted, liked & sought after by society, organizations, families & other persons/individuals?

Persons who are wanted/liked/respected and sought after are those persons who can be called as Integrated Individuals


Who are those integrated individuals?

Integrated Individual is a Person who has 4 Groups of Intrinsic Qualities (Q1, Q2, Q3 and Q4) where 39 human inner quality parameters are inscribed into those 4 groups, as indicated below

  • Good human being with 14 Internal Attributes
  • Good Citizen with 6 Strong Pillars of Character
  • Competent person who is fit for the Next stage of life/education or job & is competent to fulfill the 8 NEEDS for a fruitful life
  • Skilled person with multi job skills & 11 Generic Skills
  • Let me into the details of each one of the group of human qualities mentioned above.


Q-1: Good human being with 14 Internal attributes and they are

  • Knowledgeable
  • Principled & Open Minded
  • Good Learner & Inquirer
  • Active Listener & Thinker
  • Caring & Sharing
  • Balanced & Reflective
  • Good communicator
  • A calculated risk taker
  • Aware about self
  • Can self actualize with creativity & innovation
  • Mind, body & spirit are connected
  • Fearless, truthful & tolerant to other´s views
  • Unconditional love for others
  • Connected with Environment & is aware of it


Q-2: Good Citizen with 6 Strong Pillars of Character and they are:

    • Be honest
    • Don´t deceive, cheat or steal
    • Be reliable – do what you say, you will do
    • Have the courage to do the right thing
    • Build a good reputation
    • Be loyal – stand by your family, friends and country
    • Treat others with respect; follow the golden rule
    • Be tolerant of differences
    • Use good manners
    • Be considerate of the feelings of others
    • Don´t threaten, hit or hurt anyone
    • Deal peacefully
    • Do what you need to do
    • Preserve: keep on trying!
    • Always do your best
    • Use self control & be self disciplined
    • Think before you act – consider the consequences
    • Be accountable for your choices
    • Play by the rules
    • Take turns & share
    • Be open minded: listen to others
    • Don´t take advantage from others
    • Don´t blame others carelessly
    • Be Kind
    • Be compassionate & show, you care
    • Express gratitude
    • Forgive others
    • Help people in need
    • Do your share to make your organization better
    • Cooperate
    • Stay informed; & vote
    • Be a good neighbor
    • Obey laws and rules
    • Respect authority
    • Protect the environment

An individual gets integrated, when his/her body, mind, heart and spirit (imagination, thinking, actions, reflections and emotions) are balanced and integrated.


Kindly note that 99% of all the 4 Groups of Qualities (Q1, Q2, Q3 & Q4) are all Internal Qualities and Relate to the Mind, Heart and Spirit and they all come through the self effort, self awareness, self determination and self management.



Q-3: Competent person who is fit for the Next stage of life/education or job & is competent to fulfill the 8 NEEDS for a fruitful life. The 8 NEEDS are indicated below

  • Basic life needs - air, food, drink, shelter, warmth, sleep & sex
  • Protection, security, order, law, limits, stability
  • Family, affection, relationships, work group
  • Achievement, status, responsibility, reputation
  • Knowledge, meaning, self-awareness
  • Beauty, balance, form
  • Personal growth & fulfillment
  • Helping others to Self Actualize


Q-4: Skilled person with multi job skills & 11 Generic Skills

    • Effectively Communicate
    • Manage Information
    • Efficient in using Numbers
    • Think & Solve Problems
    • Demonstrate positive Attitudes & Behaviors
    • Be Responsible
    • Be Adaptable
    • Learn Continuously
    • Work Safely
    • Able to work with a Team
    • Feels easy to participate in Projects and Tasks
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